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Rituals are everywhere. They are most often associated with religions as every tradition and path has oodles of them. Congregational worship services are punctuated by well-defined rituals. So are the customs and traditions of indigenous peoples: ceremonial dressing, dancing around a fire, smoking a peace pipe. Broaden your perspective a bit, and you'll see that other areas of community life are filled with ritual activities: the opening coin toss of a sporting event, the ringing of the opening and closing bell at the Stock Exchange. In our homes, we may have morning rituals around getting up and bedtime stories for children.
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@Debbie D - I love your sand box idea. Going to have to create one of those for myself. It's a much simpler and personal version of the Patience Stone ritual I posted about. Thank you!
This sounds beautiful. My best friend just died on December 2, 2015. I am at once in shock and numb and inspired and bursting. These alternate. Both are overwhelming. I am needing and exploring rituals now. I am open to whatever arises.
I love the idea of ritual. I have a box with sand in it; not very deep. There are shells, rocks and one man-made rock with the word "love" engraved in it. This "rock" is black and lovely. There is an elongated shell which spirals into a point at the end. I use it as a pencil. I write in the spaces between the rocks and shells. Each message is a "To Do" for the day. I like to watch the words disappear when I gently shake the box from side to side. I think I will change the purpose of my box. I would like to write worries, and watch, as I shake it. The sand from underneath seems to rise and bury the words. It reminds me of how the ocean waves slide onto shore; burying what was there. Most dramatic eraser is the undertow. It pulls my feet down and covers them quickly. It always amazes me how my heels and toes disappear and an anklet of ocean water surrounds. Just as I regain my balance from the ocean's pull, it marches back and triumphantly engulfs my heels and toes again. The water shows me that it is stronger than me. It also makes me see my resilience.
I am ready to run a group for parents who are experiencing the devastation of having a child addicted to drugs. My own experience for the past 16 years. I wonder if you would help with a ritual to take the participants from aloneness and isolation to being in a safe community of parents who can share their stories, hopes and dreams and also grief, loss and sadness.
I'm a Certified Life Cycle Celebrant/Wedding Officiant. I think that rituals are very helpful in marking the passage from one stage of life to another. Or, on a smaller scale, just from one part of the day to another. Or to mark the change of seasons. I think we yearn to create meaning in our lives and rituals help us do this. I love the idea of a ritual salon and I'm glad that you started one.
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