Consider letting someone off the hook for a deed they committed or harsh words they spoke.
Look deeply within for any bitterness or residual anger that you may still harbor toward that person. Even when someone is long out of our lives or even deceased, we may be holding resentment toward them. Who is being hurt by those feelings? Resolve that it's time to let that negativity go. If you've been holding resentment for a long time, it may take a while to release it, but stay the course with gentle firmness. Ultimately, you will be able to take a deep breath and enjoy your new freedom. Remember, we cannot have a better past, but we can usually have a better present.— Allan Lokos in Pocket Peace