There's a wonderful conversation in Regarding Henry (a movie about a conscience-less lawyer who suffers brain damage from a gunshot wound and finds himself recovering in a new and strange world) during which Henry tells his physical therapist, "I tried to go back to my life. But I don't like who I was. I don't fit in." His therapist tells him, "Don't listen to nobody trying to tell you who you are. It may take a while, but you'll figure yourself out."

Terry Hershey, Soul Gardening